05/28/22 - W06 Blog: Personal Space Differences
Personal space is a private limit to everyone. It is like there is a "bubble" around, which limits the approach of others. The approach limit will depend on how familiar is the other person, husband, friend, co-worker, client, or just people around. It will also depend on whether the introverted, extroverted, conservative person lives in rural areas, small cities, or large urban areas. And the most important, the cultural one. It will determine how you establish personal space.
I remember I met some missionaries who had gotten on the
subway in Mexico City, one of them was from Wyoming, and the other was from
Arizona. None of them had been in a subway before. A missionary from Wyoming
said, "people in Mexico City push us when we get on the subway, but we
agree to say that we could get on the subway and survive." They both felt
people pushed them on purpose to annoy them or that people touched them to
dirty their clothes. I made it clear to them that it is normal for people to do this.
They just want to get to work, school, or home on time. They have to be a little
rough to give themselves their place and let them pass.
The distance from personal space will always depend on the
factors mentioned above. A New Yorker man waiting for his lunch at an Oklahoma
restaurant maybe he can think service is terrible. Is it difficult to
understand, and respect personal space when you are in a culture where it is
not so relevant?

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